《The World Is Big, But It’s You》

Supertime Editor Department

Yang Lan is good at capturing times definition and children’s soul, integration of beauty, female modele, intelligence, elegance and wisdom.

《The World Is Big, But It’s You》 is an essay collection of Yang Lan, illustrates his opinion in terms of family, love, children, interview, communication skills etc.

1) Love view, family view：

What is love? Give up their own independent consciousness and existence, get understanding only in each other's consciousness.

Love runs fast, but grows slowly. As two trees, there’s a separate tree trunk, but the root and branch overlap.

The best love is letting both sides become better selves and grow together.

As parents, we eager for success of ur children, while so many tutorial classes deprive our children of precious childhood times. What we should do is to know their real interest.

With time goes by, parents may feel generation gap, maybe our children beg us to spend a nice weekend with them. As parents, we sincerely hope that our children can explore the whole world with their own eyes and courage, while home is their permanent shelter regardless of their success or failure.

Poet Kahlil Gibran wrote in 《On children》: You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and he bends you with his might, that his arrows may go swift and far.

2) Excellent life：

Andrew Prince of UK, deals relationship properly with his ex-wife, puts child’s health growth the first place, and reduces negative influence of divorce to minimum degree.

President of IMF, Lagarde is silver haired, while she is charming enough to be respected by all.

President of Chanel Karl. Lagerfeld is of strong characteristic, and stands out of crowd.

Park Geun-hye is respected by all for her positive and optimistic attitude towards life, through parents’ assassination and various experiences.

3) Talking Strategies：

Communication starts from learning circumstance and objects. Talking with the westerns, we may start our conversation from weather, traffic, time difference etc, also we may talk about losing weight, sport, APP, to create a humorous atmosphere.

The 1-st question is vital. Knowing each others’ interest and hobbies, shows our attention to them, also adds expressing desire. Don’t hesitate to say compliments, this may help us make relationship better. Talking with professional persons, better have a little knowledge or understanding of this field. Slow down our conversation speed may help increase expression accuracy and stable emotions.

Control talking time properly. How many questions to ask? Which questions are more important? Which questions to delete when time isn’t enough? How to ask? What questions are spare? Questions are precise or now? etc.

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